Tuesday, 28 December 2010

Sometime I keep quiet does not mean I really keep quiet.. when I fully keep quiet, it mean I really fully disappointed on u.. just dun wish to talk so much.. I really very tired..

Monday, 27 December 2010






m i really givr too much of chance




Go ahead. Love yourself. Be good to yourself. Treat yourself well. Replenish yourself. You will discover that, the more you love yourself, the more you will be able to give love to others - and the more others will want to be around you and give back to you. This is a win-win situation. Loving yourself will ultimately benefit the lives of others you encounter, as well as your own life. =)

hate hate hate

I hate crying in front of people. Not because it’s a sign of weakness, I just don’t think they can handle me at my worst. I don’t want my negative vibe to rub off on others because they deserve to be happy. They will probably think I’m a dumbass for crying over something so stupid which is probably true, but I can’t help it. And if they see me like this, it will make them worry and I don’t want them to worry about me. When I try to explain to them why I’m crying in the first place, I’ll just end up crying even more. I end up drowning in my own tears that they won’t even understand a word I’m saying because I’m bawling more than ever. Then when they try to make me feel better it never helps since all they do is constantly say, “Everything is going to be okay” when that phrase is overrated. I’m not as strong as you think I am.




Remembering all the wonderful and silly things this past year we have shared, leaning on each other, as we did this past year. Sharing all our feelings. both bad and good, knowing that we were there for each other as best we could. Someone who seemed to always take the time, to show me how to love, and especially, how to be so kind. I wish you so many good things for this Christmas time to come, knowing that in my heart, all the good for me you have done. Thanks for everything! I thank God for making you part of me and for making us understand each other the way we do. You know that you are so “handsome” and may God give you a lot of blessings. Wish I could spend the Christmas with you. Thanks for being there always! I couldn’t ask for anyone any better! God has truly blessed me! I love you. :)

will-you-wish-for-more-if-you-have-this

A boy who calls almost every minute just to say he loves you.
A boy who desperately hugs you every time you fight,
A boy who holds your hands and clasps it tightly but gently.
Stares at you as if you’re the only woman around.
Sings you songs even if he doesn’t have a good voice.
Pulls you when it rains just to dance with you.
Lastly, a boy who pulls you back in his arms when you’re hurt. Even after you pushed him away and broke his heart.

Thursday, 23 December 2010

I love who i m

I love the way i m... my attitude and unreasonable or even worst temper... if u think u can control me den dun said so much.. i hate it!!!

Thursday, 16 December 2010

男人啊! 以後真的要對自己的老婆好一點喔!

那晚,我認識的一對年輕夫妻中的太太哭著來電:「你快來!我恨他!我 要和他離婚 !」 快速趕到他們家, 這會兒還正吵的兇呢!
男說:「她很無聊,我上班好累,她說晚上要去散步,我說改天,她就又 哭又鬧,真是討厭!」
女說:「你才討厭,我在家作牛作馬為這個家打掃,為你做飯為你生孩 子,為你們臭男人當發洩獸慾的工具怎麼,只要求散個步你就會累死啦!?」
男說:「喂!生小孩是兩人的事又不是我一人的事,妳累難道我不累?我 發洩難道妳沒享受?」
女說:「哼!早知道生了小孩你不管我根本就不生,我們女人為何辛苦生 下孩子,就一定要負責孩子的一切,又不能出去工作。」
男說:「喂!生孩子又不是妳一人能辦到,沒有我妳生個屁。」
女說:「哼!你們男人有何貢獻?享受女人肉體的是你,發洩的也是你, 你貢獻了什麼?」
男說:「哼!沒有我的貢獻精子妳生什麼!?」
再來下面的話讓人難忘!!
女說:「哈哈!貢獻精子你,享受完了,你射精了,你貢獻了,好那看看 我們女人的貢獻:
我懷孕要忍耐嘔吐
我要小心飲食
我連生病都不敢吃藥
我要為肚裡孩子注意一切
我懷孕不便於行
我不再能遠行郊遊
我坐車都不方便
我要穿上大肚裝
我不能放心行房
要擔心肚裡孩子是否健康
我要定時去醫院產檢
我懷孕要破壞身材
我要煩惱妊娠紋的出現
生產後要努力恢復身材使丈夫不嫌棄
我要忍受陣痛
我要痛苦生產
我也許須要剖腹生產
我也許會有產後憂鬱症
我要帶初生嬰兒
我因餵奶而胸部下垂
我要照顧小孩生活起居
我要比小孩晚睡而比小孩早起
我要半夜起床餵奶
我還是要忙一切家事
我要放棄事業
我伸手要錢要看丈夫臉色
丈夫出門享樂而我得在家帶小孩
甚至於走樣的身材是丈夫外遇的藉口
這種種一切就是我的貢獻! 你不過是享受完之後,放一點精子在我肚子, 然後大睡, 奇怪,這種情況,憑什麼小孩要跟著你姓?!他的血他的肉他的一切都是我給的,你不過只給他一丁點兒,有什麼資格跟我爭?」
這場架吵完了,我永遠記得那丈夫極力想爭辯,卻一點話都說不出來. 想一想,好像事實真是如此。男人啊! 以後真的要對自己的老婆好一點喔! 至於女人嘛!

Tuesday, 14 December 2010

my 1st n 2nd days of work

Today is my 2nd days of work liao le.. I love this job.. even my software n maths is like suck but I still will try my very best de.. now work wit soo er.. she is my in charge:) haha.. I love to work wit her.. she towards her staff is good:) somemore she very de patient teach me software n maths.:) I will try hard n try my very best de.. tml is my 3rd days liao le.. I must jia you jia you liao... now go sleep liao.. tml still have long way to go.. nitenite.. update u all soon:-)

Monday, 13 December 2010

男人该为女人做的101件事...

1.她是你最后一个女人

2.从背后抱着她睡觉,把她像孩子一样揽在怀里

3.即使自己盖不到被子也不要在她熟睡的时候惊醒她

4.吃她喂给你吃的东西,并且也觉得好吃

5.不打听她不想你知道的任何事情

6.相信她的每一句话,如果实在离谱找个机会平静下来好好沟通

7.努力适合她的生活方式,营造你们的生活圈子

8.友好的对待她的朋友,并且也把他们当成是你的朋友

9.在她的朋友前给足她面子,让她觉得跟你在一起她是幸福的

10.继续做自己喜欢的她也不反对的工作

11.按照她给你设计的style穿着打扮或者两人一起打造自己的形象

12.注意锻炼身体让自己有男人味从而让她有安全感

13.为她注意自己的形象,尤其是一起出去的时候

14.陪她做一切她愿意做的也许很幼稚的事情,换个角度其实那叫可爱或者说像她一样有童心

15.收起自己的坏情绪在她的面前乐观和微笑的时候多

16.时不时地给她惊喜,不要让生活使你们的爱情失去光泽
 
17.珍惜每一个与她在一起的机会让在一起的时光尽量充满欢乐

18.不要羞于说你爱她也不要觉得厌烦,无论在何种场合

19.如果她要抽烟你给她,然后在旁边陪着她喝酒

20.背着她在你们的房子里打转,即便只是租来的临时房子陪她在家里捉迷藏玩游戏

21.让她躺在你的大腿上一起看电视或者看电影

22.陪她做一切她想和你一起做的事情,比如看a片

23.当她思考的时候不要打扰她

24.解答她的任何疑问,如果她是一个好奇宝宝

25.一起干家务一起沐浴洗澡,能两个人一起的都要陪她,前提是她希望你陪她,
问问她不要怕被拒绝

26.帮她记下第二天要做的事情,并到时候提醒她

27.把她第二天要带的东西要穿的衣服和早上要用到的东西放在你知道的地方,并且告诉她

28.和她去菜市场买菜,如果她不会居家记得教会她

29.给她做你拿手的饭菜,并且一直享用,如果没有拿手的那么学习,
总有一天你会做到她满意的口味

30.记得时时夸奖她

31.她做得有不对的地方要委婉的提出并说明你的看法一起探讨
 
32.不要一个人闷葫芦让她担心,记住你们是一起的

33.向她汇报你的行踪让她知道你在做什么保持手机的畅通让她随时能找到你

34.告诉你父母你们的事情,你有义务让父母知道她的存在

35.记下你觉得她特别优秀的地方并且在她沮丧的时候提醒她,支持她

36.用笔记下你们一起做得你觉得幸福的事情,那是你们以后最大的财富

37.她要出门主动接送

38.觉得她开心是比你自己开心更让你开心的事情,她难过是比你自己难过更让你难受的事情

39.把她介绍给你的亲戚朋友们,并且在他们面前夸奖她

40.收藏好她给你的一切礼物,即使只是一张小贺卡

41.不再见有暧昧意味的网友,如果去见了告诉对方你的她,并且让她知道你们见面的情况

42.申请一个你们的文集,写很多情书给她让她去看

43.她生病的时候要好好照顾她,尽你所有的柔情并告诉她你很爱她,她会很快好起来的

44.在大家面前不方便用话说的能心领神会彼此的意思

45.尽量详细的告诉她你们可能要经受的困苦

46.在她受不了困苦的时候离开你你不怨恨她而是给她祝福

47.保护她不要让她受一点点伤

48.为她努力奋斗,赚足足够求婚的资本

49.勇敢地向她求婚,不要害怕被拒绝

50.在她不爱你的时候安静的走开永远不要纠缠,然后做她的好朋友

51.担起保护她照顾她的责任,并且努力去做

52.跟她的父母沟通,给他们留下好印象让他们觉得把女儿交给你是安全的可以放心的

53.告诉她应该怎么样和你的家人沟通

54.带她回家并且告诉她在你家里应该注意的事情

55.每年陪她回家去看望爸爸妈妈并和爸爸妈妈一起生活尽可能长的时间

56.记得给她的爸爸妈妈还有其他家人买礼物

57.不要当着别人的面和她吵架,尤其是在她的亲戚朋友面前

58.让她能在你身上看得到未来的希望

59.在你的问题上永远不要欺骗她对她坦诚

60.如果她说爱你她就是爱你的,不要猜疑

61.让她有空间和时间陪她的朋友们一起,爱她关心她但是要让她自由

62.支持她的突发奇想,并且帮助她去实行

63.和她一起计划你们的未来而不是打断她相信这是一件让你们觉得幸福的事情

64.和她一起装扮你们的家

65.用各种不同的方式和她***,相信这是一件很唯美的事情

66.让她把房间弄乱而不打断她,然后把房间收拾好

67.把她抱在怀里替她赶走一切她害怕的小动物

68.在你把她惹哭了的时候记得抱着她吻她的眼睛吻她的脸颊还有咸咸的小舌头,让它们把你的愤怒融化

69.相信你们的未来,无论你有多少顾虑那都是可以克服的

70.不要在她面前自卑,无论是她很漂亮你很丑,还是她家很有钱你很穷,活着她很突出你很一般

71.知道这一点:不自信的男人是不值得被人家爱的

72.改善她觉得你还不够优秀的地方而不是厌烦的跟她说你不喜欢你走,那是不负责任的解决方法

73.记得她要你少抽烟少喝酒的告诫,她是为你好抽烟喝酒伤身

74.时刻记得你们是一起的,包括你的快乐和烦恼,尽可能的和她分享

75.关心她的一切,平时也别忘了嘘寒问暖

76.和她分担她的烦恼即便你无能为力,让她知道你站在她身后让她觉得你可以依靠

77.一切困难都是暂时的你们可以度过一切难关

78.如果你是爱她的让她知道

79.相信她是你的唯一

80.如果你要离开她,尽可能地说清楚并且给她时间去接受

81.在她不冷静的时候,抚慰她让她平静下来再做其他决定

82. 尽可能避免吵架

83.不要轻易说分手

84.吵架之后主动道歉,不管是不是你错

85.记住:女人是用来宝贝的

86.原谅她的无理取闹

87.讲笑话给她听,然后和她笑成一片

88.在她跟你讲话的时候认真听

89.陪她逛街,但是少东张西望看其他的女人

90.逛街的时候如果被发现你在偷看其他女人,要跟她挑她们的刺,比如身材不好,穿着没品位,化妆太浓等

91.在她的人生大事上让她自己做主

92.劝她在做决定的时候多听听别人的意见,尤其是父母即使这样不利于你

93.一起去旅游之前把一切准备工作做好并且第二天叫她起床

94.在旅途中不要跟她怄气

95.旅行中放松下来陪她尽情的玩

96.做一切她希望你做的事情,只要不违背你的原则

97.当你不愿意去做一件事情的时候,要跟她说明白

98.为了她生活需要你低头的时候,不妨低下你高贵的头颅,你要相信你在做一件对你来说更为重要的事情

99.把你要为她做的事情写下来然后一点点去实行随时检验

100.记住:不要轻易承诺;承诺了就要尽你所能做到

101.跟她结婚,举行她最喜欢的结婚仪式
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女孩给分手的男友11条短信~

女孩和他最心爱的男孩分手了,女孩哭的好厉害,但是男孩却头也不回的走了。
这是女孩给分手后男孩的11条短信。

第一条;

傻瓜,这是我们分手的第一天,我现在好想你!你记得半夜下班了,不要用冷水洗澡,现在天气很冷的。你要去买个水瓶和电热棒烧开水。你以前总说好麻烦,可是我怕你会生病。,所以你要去买,无论多麻烦,身体重要。你今天有想我吗?我给你打了电话,你没有接。傻瓜,你怎么跟女孩一样那么爱生气啊!很晚了,记得早点睡觉!晚安!

第二条;

傻瓜,昨晚梦到你了,我梦见你笑着说,‘老婆对不起,我爱你’你知道吗?我笑着醒了,可是醒来发现是一场梦。傻瓜,你姐姐跟我说了,我知道你不会原谅我了。傻瓜,我又一次为你哭了。你知道的。我说分手都是为了让你在乎我。可是你为什么就不明白呢?你吃饭了吗?记得要好好照顾自己!

第三条;

傻瓜,我们三天没有说话了,你再也没有上网了,我天天上网等你的QQ亮起,可是QQ头像再也不亮了,再也不会动了。傻瓜,你还在生我的气吗?为什么我打电话给你,你总不接?傻瓜,我登了你QQ,你的密码和我的备注都没有改。你是不是还爱我?在备注里,你还是写‘老婆’在你空间的相册里还有我的照片。上面写着‘咱家的猪婆’傻瓜,天上那颗最亮的星星是我,你看到了吗?我在对你说,‘我想你’

第四条;

猪头,这是我们分手的第四天。我有一种冲动想去找你,可是朋友们说我对那边不熟悉会被卖的。我说我只要能见到你,我什么事都不怕!我4天没有听到你声音了,没有收到你任何信息了。我每天都好难受!这样没有你的日子真的不是人过的日子。猪头,你现在过的还好吗?身体还好吗?心情好吗?我知道你这个人闷闷的,心情不好不会跟朋友们说,你这个傻猪,心情不好记得要跟朋友说。

第五条;

5天了,5天以来,我都是以泪洗面。今天,我感冒了,鼻子塞着好难受。我以前感冒你都会叫我去看,现在没有你叫我去看,我什么精神都没有了。傻瓜,你要好好照顾自己的身体,你不许生病哦!你生病我会心疼的。你生病我会担心你的。你瘦瘦的,饭要多吃点。还有,天气很冷,你那床要铺的厚厚的。睡觉要穿睡衣,不然对身体不好。我这两天把家里的事处理一下,就会去找你的。你等我!

第六条;

傻瓜,我们分手以来,我每天给你发一条短信你都看到了吗?怎么都没有回呢?我的手机从来不敢关机,我要等你发信息给我,我要等你打电话给我,可是怎么等都等不到!傻瓜,我今天看到一对情侣,那个男的背女的走在人行道上。他们好幸福哦!我们什么时候也可以像他们一样呢?是不是很快就可以了?明天我就会去找你了。你要好好的等我。

第七条;

我今天坐车去找你了,我家里人不知道,我给他们留言了,叫他们别去找我。我第一次去那么远的地方,心里却没有一点点的害怕。因为我知道我很快就可以见到你了。见到你,你就可以保护我了。我现在在车上,旁边有很多人,只有我一个孤孤单单的,不过我也不怕,以后有你陪着我走人行道,我还要你背着我。但是我好像要减肥,我怕你背不起我。嘿嘿,是你太瘦了。记得要多吃点才可以背的起我。 等我!

第八条;

我到车站了,你在哪里呢?我过去找你,你回我信息,给我打个电话好吗?我坐了一天的车,这时候我很开心哦!我们很快就可以抱在一起了。你今天要给我好吃的哦,你要好好的补我一次哦!我打电话给你,你怎么不接呢?是不是在上班啊?我等你吧!等你下班了再来车站找我。记得哦!

第九条;

我在这等你一个晚上了,这里的晚上好冷啊,我蹲在大街上行人一直看着我。我长这么大第一次知道什么是丑小鸭哦!你是没有看到我的信息吗?为什么没有来找我?为什么把我扔在这里?你不知道我最黑吗?你这个坏蛋是不是想看到我落魄的样子啊?我告诉你哦,我不会落魄的。我要成为世界上最漂亮的女孩子去见你。 等你!

第十条;

我在这等你两天了,你没有出现。你是不是还生我的气啊?好了,这样吧!我用我所以的钱给你买衣服补偿你哦!你这个坏蛋就是想怎么欺负我。我这么远的来找你了,你还不原谅我哦?我现在在衣服店里,在为你买衣服呢!我知道你最喜欢穿非主流的衣服了。我可怜你哦,我帮你买吧!嘻嘻,你要想着怎么感谢我吧!我还是会回到车站等你。 等你。

第十一条;女孩最后的一条短信!

你这个坏蛋就是想气我,别跟我玩捉迷藏好吗?现在我好冷,我钱都帮你买衣服了。你快来拿啊,哪怕见我一次好吗?我不叫你背我了,我不任性了。我永远都不会离开你了。今天是我的生日,你来跟我一起过吧!我要跟我最爱的人分享快乐。我现在好累了,头好热,我是不是发烧了?你来好吗?我还在等你呢! 傻瓜,我要睡着了。你记得要好好照顾自己,找个女孩,好好的和她在一起,以后不要对你的女孩不理不睬了,女孩子很怕寂寞的,哪怕你再生气都 不要不接她的电话,她会着急的。 傻瓜,我的生日愿望是‘我好想看到你穿上我为你买的衣服,一定很好看’ 现在不可能了。 你的猪婆要睡着了,猪婆很累了。 猪婆终于可以好好睡觉了。 猪婆要你好好的过下去,猪婆会变天使来保护你的。 爱你的猪婆!



当男孩看到所有的短信后就后悔了,心痛了,于是就去找女孩,等他看到女孩后,男孩哭了,苦的非常伤心,那哭声淹没了车站,因为女孩离开他永远的走了……
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YOU MAKE ME FEEL SO BEAUTIFUL WHEN I’M WITH YOU. :”>

The worst type of crying.

Is when your lips start to shake and tears build up quickly and fall fast. You’re bent over or crouched trying to suck it in and not make any noise but it hurts too much to hold it in so you let out a yelp and a cry then comes the loss of breath which sucks because not only you’re crying out loud but you think you sound dumb for not breathing too. It’s just a mess.

I love how comfortable we are with each other.




I love how comfortable we are with each other. I love how we endlessly pick on each other, but we never take the teasing to heart. I love you and everything about you. I love how you need me as much as I need you. <3
forehead kisses
kisses upon your shoulders / shoulder blades
navel kisses
side neck kisses
eyelid kisses
freckle kisses
kisses on your collarbone
kisses where it hurts / when it hurts (the kind that make you feel better)
kisses at stoplights
secret kisses
unexpected but long-awaited kisses

True love is not shown by hug and kisses. Sex? To make relationship strong? Come on! its lust, not love! When you’re truly in love. You should know how to be patient wait till right time comes. Give respect to the one you love. Its nice to be in love when you know how to wait. Not on how make fun.

Love!!!

I want you to fall for me so hard, that you become scared to lose me. I want you to dwell in my existence; where a day without me would feel incomplete. I want you to fall as hard for me, as I’ll fall for you. I want you to remember me always, and I want you to chase after me when I push you away. I want you to pull me back when I’m trying to leave. I want to feel the reflexes of my own words. I want you to keep me grounded when I’ve done wrong. I want you to be relentless. I don’t want any constrictions in my chest, but the bones that shapes our interest. I want you to fall so hard for me, that you realize you’ve never even felt this way about someone before. And if I left, I would want every thing we ever shared to make you remember me. I want all the things we did, said, and never got to; to make you remember me by. I want to know you’ll fall so hard for me that if a song we shared came up on the radio; it would make you have this sudden sharp pain in your chest. And in those fleeting seconds, I hope you know how much you fell in love with me and how you can’t live without me. I hope then, you’ll come chasing after me. It’s selfish I know, but I want to be the only girl you have your eyes on. I want to be the only girl you actually fell for.

Friday, 10 December 2010

long weekend again

this week is a long weekend.... my darling Val ROM wedding... haha... happy n enjoyable weeding... happy happy... update soon soon... now they all play mahjong... so i only can update short short... hehe.. update soon soon!!!

Monday, 6 December 2010

weekend activity

i n Baby has a mahJong session wit my darling val, my brother th n ah er plus my bee bee too.. hehe.. play 4 rounds.. so happy happy.. so long did not like tat play till like tat liao:) keep on play n play.. somemore i n my bee bee about 11am den jiu wake up liao le.. haha.. scares later they wait for me only.. so i try to wake up early.. but end up when we reach bedok interchange. Val still sleeping... haha... luckily th call her n wake her up.. n we also packet some foods plus drink too.. prevent later we hungru or thirst i think when we play de 2nd round den we do downstair tk our dinner.. hungry hungry.. after eating den baby need to go back to camp.. so he tk bus den tk mrt to camp... den we straight away go to val hse n start our 3rd rounds...


When we play halfway den jayson came back.. haha... so we play 1 more round... haha... always jayson came back den we sure have a lot of laughter de.. when he not ard also have a lot of laughter.. when we done our 4rounds of mahjong den i, th n ah er we tk cab hm...

Once i reach hm den faster shower den sleep.. tired tired... haha...


Now bee bee book out liao le.. he now resting.. n i blogging.. but half awake... bee bee now waiting for me to call him den tk lunch sit him.. haha.. once i finish my blogging den i go wash up den go wit him to tk lunch... bee bee this week have long weekend again.. haha... accompany me accompany me n also attend val wedding.. cos he is 1 of the brother..

Saturday, 4 December 2010

outing wit bee

Today have a nice n lovely day outing wit beebee.. accompany him buy some of this new yr clothes n also some of de clothes.. cos on de 9th of Dec den he is one of de brother so he need to wear smartsmart.. today go out wit bee bee walk walk n even buy stuff:) even have abit of quarrel but luckily overall is ok liao.. or else today is a unpleasant day le.. we walk eat n even shop.. long time did not like tat liao le.. hope tat we can always like tat:) after our so called shopping finish den we go V8 cafe n eat.. haha.. heavy dinner:)

at nite we meeting his so called landlord small daughter for some purchase.. cos we buy things from her ma.. I buy de eyeliner gel.. n bee bee buy purple contact lens.. haha.. no degree de.. somemore also quite cheap cheap too.. haha.. though of buying too.. but I must have degree de.. or else no degree den I can't see:) haha.. must check le.. buy colour contact lens.. n somemore I also buy some make up platters from her.. cheap cheap too.. can have more colour on de eyes.. haha.. happy happy:)

Wednesday, 1 December 2010

女生应该体谅男人的13件事

1:不要要求他太多,不要嫌他陪你的时间不够,如果你想将来与他执手偕老,就不要在乎现在的朝朝暮暮。细水长流是的爱情才是最真的。



2:不要嫌他唠叨,因为一个男生对一个女生唠叨,那说明他真得很在乎你,当他忙的时候尽量不去打扰他。



3:当他在msn上赶你下线的时候,要立即下线,因为他有可能在等着你的头像暗了证明你睡了的时候才下线睡觉。不要让他担心。



4:只对他一个男生说晚安(wan an),以为“晚安”的含义是:wo ai ni ai ni(我爱你,爱你),对其他的男生说“好梦”或者其他的话。如果你喜欢他,就告诉他吧,即使他拒绝,并不丢面子,因为在他的心里,会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。



5:如果他喜欢你,要明确告诉他你的感情,喜欢就是喜欢,不喜欢就是不喜欢。千万不要怕伤害他而犹豫不决地。不要让他脆弱地等待到最后受到抛弃,因为男孩子的心一旦碎了很难很难再好起。



6:男孩子也有自己的脾气,只是因为爱你而压抑,不要总是任性,有时他们的决定也很有道理。



7:男孩子莫名地向你发脾气,那是因为他爱你,把你当成最亲的。最贴心的,最有安全感的人,千万不要和他发脾气,静静地等着,等他消气后后悔地去抱你。



8:他为你准备的东西,即使再难看,再廉价,也要去珍惜。因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。



9:相信他许愿给你多么多么美好的生活,要给他鼓励,因为你的鼓励会使他创造出奇迹。



10:不要总是和他联系,问他去哪里,告诉他注意安全,你会等着他就可以。



11:不要总说"我爱你",他会半真半笑着说烦你,但不要不说,因为有时候,他们比女孩子更需要这句。



12:他为你掉眼泪了,那么他是真的非常非常地爱你!珍惜他的每一颗眼泪,不要道歉,不要安慰,握着他的手,默默地为他擦去泪滴。



13:要信任他,他爱你,就什么都不会骗你!即使真的有欺骗,也是为你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃!

如果可以,我希望可以怎么吵架都不分手。

我们并不完美。也许很多小事你没注意到,我就突然开始计较。



其实我只是希望你把过去都删掉和我重新开始,毕竟看着那些我会觉得现在你对我做的会不会对她们也做过。



我还想我们之间保留隐私但不可以有谎言,我们要走那么远的路中间,如果都是秘密那我们走不远就会累或者被秘密分成两条道路。



我不能保证我们都不犯错,但是我们吵架不要隔夜。我们是别人羡慕的小两口儿。我们没有什么事不能再半小时内解决掉的。



我们都会委屈,很多时候我说不出口那句对不起 ,所以口是心非。如果我真的不能退步,你要退一步 因为我们要永远在一起。



我们都有过去,我希望那不是干涉我们的理由,不是成为我们吵架的导火索,所以我介意你保留那些。



我还希望我们周围的人不要总是提起对方的过去。就算真的没什么了,我们心里都不舒服。



我知道做一个好女朋友在家里怎么不讲理都可以,但是在外面要给你留足了面子,所以我以后不在当着外人冲你嚷对你发脾气了,有事儿我们回家说。



你说吵架了多想想对方的好。嗯……我不但要想你怎么对我好的,还要想以后我们怎么好。



实在不成以后我们一想吵架,就攒着,留着等一起出门逛街了买东西砍价跟商家叨叨去。



真的很容易因为彼此心里太委屈就提分手。那不是爱的不够深,而是害怕自己会受伤,想给对方自由。



现在你在我身边,以后也会在我身边。不管怎么吵架我们都会在一起。



因为我们在一起不容易 因为我们已经成熟了,因为我们懂得责任,因为我们爱对方都胜过爱自己 。

我可以装傻,但别以为我真傻。

(1)很多话我没说,别以为我不懂。

(2)骗我可以,但不要被我知道。

(3)我可以容忍,但别超过我的底线。

(4)我可以装傻,但别以为我真傻。

(5)不做第三者,即使再喜欢。

(6)不喜欢就是不喜欢,说啥也没用。

(7)任何的真话,我都能接受。

(8)对我不留情面的人,我会记住的。

(9)不给喜欢的人添麻烦。

(10)在喜欢的人面前,能不哭就不哭。

(11)可以为喜欢的人做任何改变,但不试图改变他。

(12)用单纯的心对待朋友和为求我爱的人。

(13)对我关心的人,我会双倍回报。

(14)我不是没脾气,只是不轻易发脾气。

(15)我不暧昧,但不代表不会。

(16)宁缺毋滥,绝不因为寂寞而恋爱。

(17)但是只要爱上一个人,我敢说绝对不是因为寂寞才跟她好的。

(18)如果你拿我不当回事,我会以同样的方式对你的。

(19)有些事情不要以为我真傻…只是不愿意揭穿你而已!

(20)有些事情不要以为我真傻…只是我不想让你的形象在我心中完全破灭而已!

如果他爱你

1. 如果他爱你,他什么事都会让你。



2. 如果他爱你,在他熟睡时你叫醒他,他也不会对你发脾气。



3. 如果他爱你,他会随时随地打通电话给你,关心你吃饱了没?



4. 如果他爱你,他心里的第一位永远都是你。



5. 如果他爱你,他会对你许下承诺,照顾你,保护你,不让你受委屈,爱你一生。



6. 如果他爱你,他会为你付出一切,就算家人反对。



7. 如果他爱你,每晚睡前一定发封长长简讯给你,内容是秘密**(肉麻或爱你之类的)



8. 如果他爱你,他会跟朋友炫耀你的优点,就算有缺点他也会偷偷的笑,觉得那是可爱。



9. 如果他爱你,你说的每句话他都会牢牢记住。



10.如果他爱你,他会为了你改掉他所有的坏习惯。

Love



Do you know what makes me love you more than I loved him? It’s because when he got me, I was perfectly unused, I was fearless. When you got me, I was already bruised and battered, I was hurting and I was afraid of the world. I was cynical about love, and yet despite all of this, you never leave.

hide and seek




BOY: Let’s play a game. Except hide and seek.

GIRL: Why not?! I love that game!

BOY: Because a girl like YOU is impossible to find!

GIRL: …… :”>

You’re perfect because everything you do makes me smile





You’re perfect because everything you do makes me smile, because every second I spend with you is worthwhile, because when you laugh at me I laugh too, because everyone else can see that I’m devoted to you, because I love your eyes and the way they shine, because you don’t tell lies and you’re so cute when you whine, because when you get mad you can’t hide it, because even when you’re sad I can find it, because the way you hold me sends shivers up my spine, because your spirit’s so free and you’re so damn fine, because I never stop thinking of you; it’s just not fair, because you’re just perfect and no one else can compare.

Tuesday, 30 November 2010

女孩的 “随便”

如果女孩对你说了“随便”你知道是什么意思吗?



那是说明女孩在乎你。



有很多男生不懂的话,可能会以为女孩不想理他,不想跟他说话了,但其实不是那样的,越是那样就说明女孩越在乎你。



如果以后挂电话的时候,女孩说了“随便”,请男孩不要挂电话,因为女孩一点也不想要挂电话。



如果以后为女孩买东西,问女孩买什么,女孩说了“随便”,意思是只要是你送的都会喜欢。



如果以后你们一起出去玩,问女孩玩什么,女孩说了“随便”,意思是只要和你在一起,哪里玩都无所谓。

爱上一个人的感觉

■爱上一个人的感觉,不管有多累,也很想看见他
■爱上一个人的感觉,不管有多忙,都会主动打电话问候他一下
■爱上一个人,看见什么都能第一个想到他
■爱上一个人,都想把好的留给他
■爱上一个人,整天都会担心他
■爱上一个人,不管自己有多么小的事情都希望他能知道
■爱上一个人,就是他说你是傻瓜,你都会很开
■爱上一个人,只要和他有关的东西都会搜集回来,好好珍藏
■爱上一个人,可以做到三句话不离他的影子
■爱上一个人,可以为他流很多泪水,但是必须是他给擦干
■爱上一个人,就是那么倔强的喜欢
■爱上一个人,打个闪雷都能想到他,和他说"我怕"
■爱上一个人,希望通话记录里全是他的电话号码
■爱上一个人,希望他早晨第一个听见我的问候
■爱上一个人,最后一个和他道晚安的就是我


■其实去爱上一个人也是一种学习,不是吗?
■如果真心付出,就该无憾,才算真正获得。


■在你年轻的时候,你一定要温柔的对待你的爱情,
■因为在年老时,你将只会记得这温柔。


■爱上一个人,可以让自己变得很认真, 生活找到了重点,开始有理由为自己改变,变得有精神。
■爱上一个人,可以让他飞得很自由, 但偶尔累了,却又可以休息得很安稳。
■爱上一个人,想让留著的加热包保有余温, 冀望著这一季秋,只想付出的心不再那麼寒冷。
■爱上一个人,心要变得更安份,更诚恳, 不必期待能收到多少分, 只在乎自己是否付出得完整。
■爱上一个人,把心情调到冰点,要能受得起, 即使你只是朋友的问候,却相应不理的冰冷。
■爱上一个人,往往对方就是看不到你的真诚, 反而连累身旁的朋友,替你担心,为你伤神。
■爱上一个人,就该懂得该走的时候,应该要带著微笑给予祝。

如果有来生,你愿意牵我的手吗?

在我们相遇的那一刻起,我的生命中便永远有了你的气息,有意无意你的一颦一笑总在飘荡、飞舞,不在身前就在身后,不在左就在右。你的声音如歌声般萦绕耳边,谢谢你,让我体味到爱的滋味,让我知道了,梁山伯与祝英台的故事不只是个传说,谢谢你,给我一个爱你的机会,我会好好珍惜这个机会,好好的去爱你,虽然爱的那么痛苦,爱的那么艰辛,可是却又觉得幸福,别笑我,傻傻凝望你时的专注,你可知,我凝望你的目光里的含义,你可知,我的泪里包含了多少对你的爱,为爱,我勇敢的牵你的手,不管后面将会有怎样的风雨,也不管世俗对我的评论。只是因为我爱你。

真的无法失去,难以想像的心灵,是你,让我如此眷恋,就这样任凭时间飘流,岁月的蹒跚,让我的爱随着时间,越来越真,亦越来越深。

如果当我老去的一天,有人问我,这世上还有什么值得你留恋,我说,是你,是这份不能释怀的爱,让我死不瞑目。

因为你,我愿意相信,人有来生,当我走过奈何桥,我不想喝下孟婆汤,不想忘记这段情缘,就算让我沦为孤魂,我也要将我对你的爱,刻在三生石上,等待千年之后,如果再轮回,我还会去爱你,不知来生的你会是怎样的,今生,我要记下你的样子,就连你背上的胎记我也会记住他的位置,在佛前我会祈求,祈求来生让我找到你,但一定要早一些,别让这颗爱你的心再没有边际的、孤独的飘荡,别再让它站在寒风里等你等的哭泣,别再让它疼得滴血。

今生的爱,今生读,来生续,如果有来生,你愿意牵我的手吗?

给男朋友看的(⌒▽⌒)

①有了女朋友 . 好心就别乱搞 ~ 纸包不住火的 ! 看你能玩多久 ? ②有了女朋友 , 好心就别对其他女生口花花 ~ ③有了女朋友 , 好心就别半夜三更跟其他女生sms说电话 ~ ④有了女朋友 , 好心就别偷偷跟其他女生约会 ! ⑤有了女朋友 , 好心就别对其他女生有暧昧关系 ! 你怎么知道那女的就會不會是你女朋友的朋友 ? ⑥有了女朋友 . 好心手机和电脑就不要有其他女生的照片 ! 能免则免 ~ 女生会胡思乱想 ><" 误会吵架就不好了 ~ ⑦有了女朋友 , 好心就别在网上facebook或friendster 等等 . 一直跟完全不认识的女生要电话号码 ! 看到美女身痒呀 ? ⑧有了女朋友 , 好心就别跟其他女生太亲密 ! 即使是女朋友的朋友也不能~ ⑨有了女朋友 , 如果是真心爱她那就别让自己心爱的她哭 T^T 伤害自己><" ①0 有了女朋友 , 就别太过在乎自己的朋友 ~ 要知道 . 自己的女朋友才是最重要 ! ①①有了女朋友 , 就应该好好珍惜 =) ①②有了女朋友 , 就应该好好疼她 , 爱她 , 保护她 ~ 不要等到失去以后才后悔 , 没用的 ! 失去的 , 就是永远失去了 ~ 怎样也挽回不了 . 没那么简单 . 就能找到谈得来的伴~~~ 想想吧 , 在你最无助的时候 . 是谁不离不弃陪你走过难关?? 给那些有了好的女朋友的男生^^
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A kiss can beautify souls hearts and thoughts.







WHAT EACH GESTURE MEANS:
- Holding Hands: We definitely like each other.
- Holding you tight pressed against each other: I want you.
- Looking into each other's Eyes: I like you, for who you are.
- Playing with Hair: Let's fool around.
- Arms around the Waist: I like you too much to let go.
- Laughing while Kissing: I am completely comfortable with you.

WHAT EACH KISS MEANS"
- Kiss on the Forehead: We're cute together .
- Kiss on the Cheek: We're friends.
- Kiss on the Hand: I adore you.
- Kiss on the Neck: I want you, now.
- Kiss on the Shoulder: Your perfect.
- Kiss on the Lips: I LOVE YOU...

Ways To Get To A Girls Heart-- 1. Hug her from behind. 2. Grab her hand when you guys walk next to each other. 3. When standing, wrap your arms around her. 4. Cuddle with her. 5. Dont force her to do ANYTHING! 6. Write little notes. 7. Compliment her. 8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible. 9. Say I love you.....and MEAN IT! 10. Brush the hair out of her eyes 11. Comfort her when she cries. 12. Love her with all your heart

Reasons why I love you
















He makes me feel so safe and so loved



I don’t know why I love him the way I do. He makes me feel so safe and so loved, in his arms I am truly free. The way he looks at me sends shivers down my spine but I know everything will be okay. He always makes everything okay. When he smiles at me my heart could soar. Every stupid love song on the radio belongs to us. It’s so nice just to love him and not care and know that he loves me back. It’s nice to be with him and spend time with him and watch his sweet face as he sleeps and to feel his heart beat. I think if you felt our heartbeats they would beat at the same time. I feel like this is what I was meant to feel, like all the others were just practice, but this is for real. He makes me feel like I could be anyone and do anything I wanted. The way he protects me makes me melt, and the way he is so overprotective. I’m not afraid anymore, he’s always comforting me and letting me know he’s with me every step of the way. So this is what true love feels like.

Times that i miss u

46 reasons why I LIKE and LOVE YOU.

1. Your simplicity makes me fall harder.

2. You keep on denying that you have looks, when you really have looks.

3. The spaces between your fingers are where mine fits perfectly.

4. Every little part of you is interesting.

5. You give the tender loving care every girl needs.

6. There’s something about us that keeps me hanging on.

7. Your eyes do all the talking.

8. Our likes and dislikes are quite similar in a way.

9. You showed me that not all guys are liars.

10. Every little thing I do to leave you brings me back to you.

11. Love de way u Kiss my forehead.

12. Even though you’re busy, you still allow me to bug you.

13. I sleep after you send your good night messages.

14. I wake up to your good morning messages, where all the good vibes came from.

15. Even though the signal here is crappy, you still try to call me.

16. You inspire me to do good things.

17. I have so much love for you.

18. I have nothing more to prove since you know I’m yours.

19. When something happens to me, I want you to be the first one to know.

20. When you tell me you love me, I really feel that you do.

22. I can be the real me, knowing that you’d accept what I really am.

23. Okay, I am surly, but you never left me.

24. You are a straight-forward person.

25. Love de way U hug me

26. Love de way u sayang me

27. You know how to turn this frown upside-down.

28. You are imperfectly perfect in my eyes.

29. Sometimes, I really feel like crying. But when you’re around, I feel like laughing.

30. Love de way u pamper me.

31. Love de way u dote me.

32. I would give anything just to dream about you. Because I believe that dreaming about you will make me much happier.

33. When you tell me you love me, my ears burn.

34. Love de way u give in to me.

35. Love de way when u r jealous.

36. I forget to breathe because of you.

37. You bring out the best in me.

38. Every time I blink.. I think of you.

39. It’s too hard to be far away from someone like you.

40. I like those lips of yours.

41. You befriend my friends.

42. You call me your mallow and baby. :p

43. Love de way when u r angry.

44. You keep me grounded.

45. You make sure every COUNTS.

46. I love you!!!

Monday, 29 November 2010

This is de reason that i dun dare to love u more



This pic is for u to know that i sometime really dun wish to love n care about u more or deeper.. cos i scared u will let me down again.. always when i really wanna love u more, but somehow always have thing happen.. always is our quarrel n quartrel.. always bcos of quarrel den our r/s from bad to worsr.. i really dunnoe wat to do to maintain our r/s.. n i dunnoe how to control my temper.. u always said i did not control my temper.. i suspect is i really did not control or u r de one who blast my temper out.. haiz... **speechless**

word from me





I wish that one day i n u really can be like de past like that.. as sweet like last time n as loving like last time too.. somehow our gap is from big to huge liao le.. i really dunnoe wat to do.. u think that is our thinking is not de same... or u think that my temper i really cant control at all.. or u think that always bcos of de same topic n keep on quarrel.. i really dun have any intend to let go but somehow, always we quarrel, i always ask u go find another gal.. haha.. dunnoe u one day will u really go find other gal ma.. haha...

The word n sentence thati wish to said to u




I want a boy…

A bad boy, but a bad boy with a soft side.
A boy who will make me laugh.
A boy who will let me play with his hair.
A boy that would look me in the eyes and sing me something random but sweet.
A boy that acts normal around anyone.
A boy who would tell a girl that he had a girlfriend.
A boy who would make out in the rain with me.
A boy who would lay under the stars and tell me stories as I lay my head on his chest.
A boy who would wait for me outside the bathroom.
A boy who would come up behind me; take my hands; and lay his head on my shoulder so I can put mine on his.
A boy who lets me pay for some thing’s.
A boy who would do something special for me if I were having a bad day.
A boy who would beat another guys ass if they were messing with me.
A boy who would call me at 3am and ask me what I was doing; and tell me he was thinking about me
A boy who would pick out a song that made him think of me.
A boy who would help me if I was having problems at home.
A boy who would take the blame for me being late.
A boy who would pin me against a wall and kiss me.
A boy who would take me to the movies and see a stupid kid movie; just so we can sit in the back and make out.
A boy who makes his friends jealous of me because he talks about me so much.
A boy who lets me take pictures of him at embarrassing times.
A boy who would pretty much do anything for me.
A boy who would kiss my forehead.

Sunday, 28 November 2010

You mean everything to me.




It’s YOU. You mean everything to me. You are the first thought in my head in the morning when I wake up. My last thought before I go to bed. You smile at me in my dreams. When you are sad, I fell sad, and when I see your true smile, I feel incredible, like there is no other thing around and all I can see is you. :)

Ihope we can....

Trust me; I’m not lying. I do miss you deep down inside. You told me that I wouldn’t lose you, yet I lost you. You told me you wanted to spend time with me, but I didn’t get my chance to. Somehow I should have expected this to happen, but I didn’t let it bother me. It’s kind of like I wanted it to happen. You said things that no one has ever said to me and you opened my eyes to what surrounds me. You made me realize that I had a lot more than I actually thought and no one has made me feel so loved like you did. You taught me how to love. You taught me to not only love myself, but you taught me how to love others. Whether you believe it or not, I fell in love with you.

Saturday, 27 November 2010

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I love it when we have long conversations about anything. I love it when we get to hang out together. I love it when we laugh about something completely stupid. I love it when we hold hands while sitting together. I love it when we just stand still hugging while ignoring the rest of the world. I love it when we create wonderful memories together. I love how comfortable I feel telling you that I love you every night before I sleep.



I want to show you off to the world. We don’t have to make out everywhere we go just so that we could make everyone in our atmosphere crave it so much that they start to lick their lips. Or hold hands just so all the single people can walk by and call us cute. We don’t need matching outfits so we could camera whore and get all these comments on Facebook. As cute as that may sound, we don’t have to do any of that. There is nothing we need to prove to anyone because I’m yours and you’re mine. Fuck all the standards of being a couple, let’s just be together. That’s all that really mattered anyway.

When I say that I want to show you off to the world, its not my intention to make everyone jealous. Its to make them believe that it is possible to find something special when you least expect it. A trust so strong that you don’t need pinky promises to define it since they just know not to tell your secrets. A connection so rare that they become your part time lover and full time friend. A relationship so special that they bring out the best in you. Let’s just be together and leave it at that.